Guess who bought me lunch yesterday? My first investment teacher, Ms. Wendy Kwek.
We had a very good lunch and even move to Penang chendol.
Was supposed to be one hour… it lasted like three hours.
I do not know how the subject moved into eczema.
As she is now into energy and healing, she checked it up.
Its due to the person not loving oneself, usually from a broken family, or being labelled “not good enough”, or “I don’t love you as much”, or “self-blame as a child when the parents divorced”.
Cure – love yourself first.
I spend a lot of time with my Students and Teachers during this COVID period. I heard this type of cases a lot. How a person, thinking oneself is not good enough, will give good things to others and will reject good things to themselves.
So, lets do a self-affirmation today.
Say this to yourself as many times a day …. I now allowed myself to be loved and to love others.
Teacher Blair Singer made us do this in class last year and it was a very emotional experience for me.
For a long time, I always give and give and did not keep any good things to myself. For example, when planning travels to Europe, I would buy new shoes for my wife and kids so they wont slip in snow and yet I was wearing a 20 yr old boots with worn out sole. When my daughter pointed it out, I realised that and immediately arrested that negative mindset. And that sets the motion for many good things in life. From that day on, whatever I buy for them, I will buy one set to reward myself. I am a happier person as I love myself more and more each day. Like them, I deserve a good life.
So, will you say this to yourself after reading this message ? I now allow myself to be loved and I will allow myself to love others.
Do this a few times and tell me how you feel after typing this.
Investor, Practitioner and Full-Time Coach